Virginia Real Estate and Musings: The Separation of Family and Money

The Separation of Family and Money

picture of stewie griffinI heard a very sad story earlier this week.  

A father opened up a savings account for his son at a local bank.  The son was leaving for college and the father wanted to be able to deposit funds for his son.  The account was in the names of both father and son with the father's good intention of providing spending money to his son when needed.

The son got mixed up with a bad kid.  The kid opened up a checking account at another local bank.  The kid wrote a bunch of checks on the checking account (which didn't have any money to cover the checks). The son deposited them into his savings account and the two of them immediately withdrew as much cash as they could.

Now, the father must file charges against his son to protect himself from being held responsible for the bad checks.  The father's credit will be damaged and it will be a lot of work to get it fixed.

We always hear of nightmare stories where a parent has co-signed on a loan for a child.  This story shows it can also be risky to even have a joint bank account with a child or anyone else for that matter.

Tina in Virginia

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7 commentsTina Merritt - Virginia Real Estate • October 24 2009 09:11PM

Comments

Tina - that is a sad story and something I'm sure the father didn't expect either.  Good lesson for parents.

Posted by Lori Mode and Bruce Durham 916-230-0371 DRE License #00935148 and #00875356 (Keller Williams Realty - Elk Grove, CA Homes for Sale) over 2 years ago

That is Aweful.  The Father is definitly in the right for filing charges.  I love the Stewie Picture (short round) HaHa. 

Posted by Michael J. Gallo - KW Realty Pasco FL (Keller Williams Realty 727-863-1067) over 2 years ago

Thanks for bringing an awareness about this.

Posted by Loreena Yeo, Realtor®| Frisco TX Community Advocate (214)783-2210 (3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Frisco TX Real Estate Co.) over 2 years ago

Hi Tina...Most kids would not do that to their parent.  I would think that it took more than meeting a "bad" kid for him to do something like this.  I suspect he was a problem in more ways than this one instance and it sure doesn't sound like he's responsible or mature enough to be going to college.  What a terrible spot to put a parent in.

Kate

Posted by Kate Elim, Realtor® 540-226-1964 Selling Homes & Land at LAKE ANNA over 2 years ago

Tina,

This is a sad ending and something that the father would not have expected.

Posted by Don Rogers REALTOR®, CDPE, GRI O'Fallon MO & St Charles County MO homes (RE/MAX Gold) over 2 years ago

Instilling financial responsibility should have started MUCH EARLIER than 18 years old * from lawn mowing, baby sitting income to Christmas/B-Day $$$ * Father should have put an alert on account for over $200 so that before a check was PAID by the bank, the father would be notified.

Posted by Wallace S. Gibson CPM * LandlordWhisperer (Gibson Management Group, Ltd.) over 2 years ago

I have to say I agree with Wallace. We would all like to believe that nothing like that is possible with family, but how many times have we heard of "that one story" that changes our perspective?

-Joe

Posted by Joe Colón, Jr. (Shaffer Realty, LLC) over 2 years ago

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